I'm a 14 year old girl dating a 18 year old. Is that bad?

Well, we're not actually dating yet. We've been thinking about it for a while now and he said he loves me, for me. He told me he doesn't want me for sex and he said that no matter how many questions my parents ask him, they will always find that he only wants to be with me. He lives about an hour and a bit away from me, and is paying just over £70 to see me. I don't want him to spend all that money just to be wasted on my family splitting us up. I really don't know what to do.

Talk to your parents and see if they will let him visit you at your home when they are there. It may take a little time for him to get their confidence but once that takes place, they will be willing to to give you more freedom.

If your boyfriend is unwilling to deal with that arrangement, then his motives are most likely not what he says they are.

Understand that your family "splitting you up" will only take place if you violate the agreement. For that reason you want to share information with them about what's going on. The object is to keep your parents comfortable and let your guy become part of the family group.

right.. its not bad at all.
im 15 and recently been with an 18 year old lad and I had to talk my parents through the situation
sit them down and explain what type of lad he is but dont lie!
if your parents still arent happy tell them you will invite him round for dinner one say, and you's can all have a chat there but seriously dont keep it a secret from your parents they will always find out.. been there done that
hope this helps you
xx

It's not bad, it's just you cant have Sex with him. (that would be ilegal)

My advice would be to speak to your parents and let them know how you feel about this boy, let them know you love him/like.

Im sure your parents should understand.

Hope it works out for you. :D

I really think the difference in age at this point in your life is too great - you are in a different place. He has matured for four years longer than you. It may not be apparent now, but if this relationship gets more serious, it will for sure become more evident later. He will be finishing college when you finish high school. Very likely he will then view you more as a child than an equal. That's not a good situation. You will be much better off to be with people your own age.

it depends y ur dateing him if its for good reason than yes it ok

well talk to your parents about it and let them knw hw u feel..
u need to sett rules and restrictions in this relationship..
u can hv ah gud relationship without being *sexually-active*..
and if he understands this ..then get this to your folks and pray about it aswell that helps alot..and it should hv a positive turn out..:)..
...elizabeth..<3

i dont wanna be the bad guy now but I am uncle cause my steph sister is raped by her 19 year old bf and she is 15 too now she got a child!
so all I wanna say is love is love do what you think its right but be safe!