Really confused by this girl.

There is this girl I have known for 2 years. I first met her when I was in high school and I have just recently started talking to her again during the past 2 months. We started texting and talking on the phone and I eventually told her how I felt about her and she told me how she felt about me. But the thing that I hate about the whole situation is that she says she does not want a relationship right now because she is trying to focus on school. I graduated last year so I told her that I would help push her to get her grades up and graduate but she still feels like we cannot be together right now. At the moment, I am very unsure if she feels the same for me as I do for her. Every morning she would text me saying something like "Good morning sunshine :)" and she calls me when she goes on lunch break and as soon as she gets off school. We talk and talk until we each go to bed late at night. Lately I have been picking her up from school and taking home with me to hang out and one day we finally started cuddling, kissing, and eventually did other things but not actual sex. After that day, she has kind of been acting strange, she asked me if I felt we were moving too fast and I told her a little and I asked her if it made her feel uncomfortable but she said no. It is very hard to explain but I notice that she doesn't text me in the mornings and I end up just texting her, she still calls me though, but we don't stay up on the phone as late as we used to, and after that one day, we have talked about sex more than usual and I know for a fact she wants to have sex with me cause we both told each other. I'm just really confused because at times we will be talking about being in a relationship with each other and stuff, and then other times she seems like she doesn't really care. So what I really want to know is if she seems like she really likes me and is just confused or if she doesn't want to be in a relationship and just wants to be friends with benefits. =/

It would help if you define in your own mind exactly what you expect from the girl. It sounds like you want her to communicate with you constantly. She has priorities and her school work may be a higher priority than her social life. Not a bad thing. Maybe the answer is for you to find something more productive to do with your time than monitor the phone.

Your description reads like you are becoming suspicious and insecure. Smothering her will kill your relationship quicker than bad breath. Back off and give her some breathing room.

You should ask her if she wants to be in a relationship with u and tell her to be honest and youll probably have an answer