I wont to find my father and his family

ok I know my fathers age name and the day he divorsed my mom I talked with my anut that was a teenager when my mom was married with my dad she gave me lil info but nothing that can help me I can not ask any one eles in the family cause they dont wont me to find him

Explain to your aunt and the other people in your family that you mean no disrespect to any of them but you do not know any of the medical problems on your father's side. When you fill out medical histories all your life, they will be incomplete for that reason. There can be situations where parental DNA can influence important issues in having children and in the future, who knows what cures DNA may bring about for people that have that information.

As if that's not enough, there's the simple moral issue that everybody has a right to know where they came from, good or bad. To keep that information from you is a selfish act. This isn't about their lives, it's about yours.

Don't let them off the hook. Bring it up every chance you get with every one of them that might have information. Feel free to print this and give a copy to each one of them if you want.