Itold my friend iliked her - after that everything changed- dose she like me?

okay on tuesday iwrote a note to one of my bi friends , about my other friend - the note said ithink im startin to like that friend. iwanted to tell her (she knew iwas bi) so ijust let her read the note and told her "dnt give a reation" then she started laughin and smilin - but when itold her iwas bi she told me she was straight.
now after tuesday it seems like we talk more and she looks at me alot, and laughs at all my jokes. igot the feelin she likes me, and she said she likes bi's. it seem like we talk alot more. smile at each other.

ijust wanna know what should ido to know for sure if she likes me or not-
KhidSkrypxz
Asked Jun 25, 2010
The word, "like" can be taken too many ways. I "like" the fat guy that sells me doughnuts every morning but I surely have no interest in kissing him. Look her directly in the eye and ask her, "Do you think this romance we have goin' on is gonna last?" She'll let you know.

Always have a backup plan. If she sounds negative on the idea, your recovery is to ask the girl standing next to her the same thing.
Rob
Answered Jun 25, 2010
yeah let me give you more detail - the note starts -{me: ithink im startin to like ***** - {my friend : tell her { me : idont want her to feel like im commin on to her {my friend : she wont just tell her {me: ido like her thoe- its gonna wired cuz ihave limitations now ; should ilet her read this - cuz you know me iget nervouse and mah words dnt come out - {my friend :ill give it to her { me : okay
If you are going to have any kind of relationship with another person, the communications should be between the two of you only. The bonding that's necessary for a romantic tie comes from knowing each other's inner-most thoughts and feelings. You can't do that through an interpreter.

If you feel the need to communicate through a third party, maybe you're not ready for this yet. That's O.K., this isn't a race. A good rule in life is never do anything you feel uncomfortable doing. When you feel discomfort, back off. That rule will serve you well.


Rob Jul 05, 2010
Well, if you like her, then make a "move" on her. Just to test it out. Maybe sit a little too close and if she doesn't scoot away, well, it's likely she likes you. But Rob is right. "Like" is too broad a term. So, if you do end up having positive signs from the sitting space test, I think that would be the appropriate time to ask her Rob's question. You don't wanna be ruining friendships. She could just feel close to you because she has some connection with bisexuality (wants to be bi, old friend was bi, etc.) Good Luck!
mzpsych
Answered Jun 29, 2010
flurt a little and if she flurts back ask her
pokemon01
Answered Sep 14, 2010
Ask_Sean Says, she may be embarassed by your point and feelings?
Ask_Sean
Answered Sep 28, 2010

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