Girl confusing me with emotions. I love her but lots of things happen. I just need help. any ideas?

right first of all, the girl im talking about. we were good friends and I asked her out one day at the beach. she said yes and I was sooo happy and so was she. 2 days later she broke up with me because she didnt want to ruin our friendship. before that there was a complete prick who she liked and had broken up with. (its not just me saying he's a prick. no one can understand what she sees in him.) and that was a year ago.

through out the year the girl and the prick had been going out on 4 separate occasions and they both still like each other alot. but she doesnt want to get hurt again by him and doesnt want to go out with him again. they are also constantly meeting up as friends aswell.

then theres me. always been there for her, helped her through tough times and we are really good friends. about a month past from them breaking up. its a sunday. im round hers (which doesnt happen often) and its just us alone. and I kiss her on the cheek and she kisses me back. then this and that happens and we end up kissing on the lips a few times. (i know it sounds silly but to me its alot.) then after a while she goes quite and looks as if she is thinking about it and wasnt sure about it. but she was still kissing me.

the next day she meets up with her ex and they have a talk and she clarifies that she isnt going to go back out with him and (her words...) even though they both want too, there isnt any point as she has given him too many chances and each time she has ended up getting hurt. after the in depth conversation they have together she says to me that she really isnt over him and she has only just realised that she wasnt. (i asked her if she was over him she didnt just say it)

soo im now here thinking that if sunday really ment anything and then wednesday comes and im with her and 2 other girls who are her friends for 4 hours. we hardly even talk and I was going to ask her if any of it ment anything and also was going to ask her to prom (which was in 9 days time). we didnt talk at all and I didnt get much of a chance to really ask her anything.

i dont know what too do. im thinking over and over about how I feel about her and I love her. I really do. but she likes somone els who isnt good for her and its tearing me apart. I know I need to talk to her but I dont know how to bring it up or how to express myself and I cant cope. some one please help me clear my mind. talk me through what I should doo.

thank you all that comment. (:

well if she isnt over this DOUCHE-BAG (just to make you feel better)
then tell her that he isnt right for her. bring it up like " hey you know that guy that you cant get over, yeah well HE'S A PRICK!" haha well dont say it like that but you get the idea. just come COMPLETLY clean. tell her everything from your feelings to what you think about the other guy. then ask her what she thinks she should do. she might say something like, "i need some time to think". if she does that then give her the time. if she doesnt answer at all, well then.... (;
but you have to talk to her about it no matter how weird or silly you might feel about talking about it, JUST COME CLEAN!
hope that helps (: good luck

hey :)

From reading what you just wrote it sucks to see you poor your heart out and stress about this because you seem like such a nice guy and she needs you instead of that dick polisher.

I agree with the last comment, come clean its not healthy keeping in these feelings because it turns you sad, angry, .. makes you feel lost like no one can understand, but I am sure there is someone just like you who even had the same experience, same situations but obviously your feelings are 100% different to your friends, everyone is different and your special in your own way, remember that and I think she can see that.

Its almost like she is scared to make the step forward to make your friendship stronger, I mean who said anything about messing it up? I think in your mind you would of treated her amazingly.

I understand how you feel, I really do and I hope all goes well because life is a challenge just ... we have to work around it.

:)

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