Why do I always say no to sex?

i have been married for 12 years, and our sex life was amazing ans still is. but I find that I only want to have sex whenever I want to when I want too. why is that? yes we have children and life gets in the way but why if we both enjoy it som much do I always say no? my body isnt the same but he still tells me every moment he can that I am sexy, and beauitiful. so why do I constantly reject him? when we go to ahve cocktails my guard is alittle down but still I say no why is that?

maybe because you dont like him anymore and he just got old to u and u r lookin for something else

How do you feel about having more children? Have you considered the possibility that the fear of becoming pregnant again might have something to do with it?

Its normal for a Woman/Man to say no to Sex as they may not want it at the Exact moment when asked then say "maybe later"?

Hey, I have the same problem with my boyfriend. I love him, but whenever he asks my first response is no even though I do want to to be with him. I don't know exactly why I do this, but I think it helps to think about why you should before you answer him. Sometimes I just blurt out no and I feel terrible, but then I can't take it back because, it looks like a pity lay. And of course he'll say no to that. I struggle with it to.

Are you depressed? Many women I know loose all interest in sex when they are depressed. Are you on some sort of mental med? Prozak, Paxil and other similar medicine can kill the libido. Its a funny path that some women take. They are all depressed and want nothing to do with sex, then they go on meds, feel a lot better, and still want nothing to do with sex.