I love this girl more than me.She helped me out in everything she changed me.But she is selfish.

Its like I met this girl on 24th Dec 2009,Christmas Eve ,we started talking ....And next day only I had to leave for holidays with mah family...So we exchanged numbers and we were all the time on talking on sms ...And b4 24 th I had a terrible break up with my x (2 yrs Relationship)....So I was very depressed ...but I dint take much interest in this girl ...So sometimes I dint used to reply to her and she used get angry over it ,and she then called me lately for the first time we were talking on a call...And so like this things proceeded I met her ,she made me meet her friends,and I started falling for her and 2 months later I asked her out ,she dint say no but said she is afraid things will suck in the end and then nothing ...After that we still used to meet and kinda got best buddies ,and now its like I do whatever she asks from getting her notes photocopied and giving it to her we live about 70 miles apart diff cities,i do everything for her ,i have spent about alot with her and she also has spent...but now its like she talks whenever she wants and she knows I love her and its like she doesnt answer my calls or messages she only does when she feels like ....and she gets cheesed off if I tok to other girls,,she doesnt like me getting drunk, she got mah hair style also changed lately,made me shop and made me buy what she likes for me......and its like I am totally confused ...its like she delibrately comes and asks me that if I like some guy she randomly met as in those spoiled brat types once I told her that me sick of this thing she said trust me and tell me to whom she talks all night and day and I was like yea me but still.....!!!!...its like me 100000% in love with this girl but this behaviour makes me confused.....

yeahh shes controling you! back out or tell her you dont like that!

Hmmm... That's a tough case. Seems like she's making use of your weak point; which is your love for her. The person I like used to text message me everyday and when I don't reply, it was she that got mad. But now, after she knew that I like her, she doesn't reply my messages and only replies like 1% out of 100% of the time.
Okay, back to the main point. If you really love her and she is treating you this way, it's best to tell her not to go too far. Or, if you're afraid of angering her. Then let the situation stay the same. No amount of money can make up for her, right?
Well, this answer is from my personal point-of-view, so it might not be of much help. Sorry ^^

give her some time she might get better!!!!lov her madness

its like u love tht person and u would anythin for them

Find a situation, a simple one, where it is obvious she is more capable of accomplishing the goal then you are. Example, "Could you get my pen?", the pen being behind her. If she won't even do this, it seems pretty obvious she really doesn't care about you. If she does do this though, you can build on that request. Slowly make larger and larger requests, until you feel that you are putting as much into the relationship as she is.