Im 19 years old, and my boyfriend and I have recently broken up due to the fact that from the day we started
dating, he was cheating on me with LOTS of men!
I knew that he was bisexual from day one so the men didn't shock me, it was the fact that he lied to me over and over and said "no" when I asked him if he wanted to be with other men. I mean he's 31 years old and he doesn't know what he wants yet?!
One night when I was coming out of the bathroom, I glanced over his shoulder and saw that he had an adam4adam account up in a sidetab. His explanation was, "I talk to my friends on here." Why the hell would anyone just have "friends" on adam4adam?! That didn't sit right with me. So that night I decided to guess his password for his adam4adam account and then I figured out his password to his gmail and there were endless emails from men and one woman about raunchy quick sex.
Reading this, I figured out that he lied to me about when he was coming home, what he was doing, and who he was with.
First I was hurt...then it pissed me OFF! I confronted him about it, broke up with him that night, and moved out the next day. I also trashed his apartment, peed in his shampoo, turned the heat up to 90 degrees (may, fl. weather), broke his cologne, took some things of his, hid the remotes, poured hot cottage cheese in his bed, mouthwash in his boots,and took all of the food out of the house except for a jar of relish.
Now I'm back at my place, STILL bitter and upset about the situation.
I understand I've taken it waaaay too far, but he really hurt me.
I moved out of my parents house into his apt. this crap.
Apparently this has been going on before me as well. Im confused because what was the point in moving me in for if he was going to run around?
He's also put my life in danger with sleeping around. I feel like this doesn't even faze him because he's been on a4a for the past few days, and going out every night.
I'm upset about the fact that he cheated, but bitter and angry that he doesn't seem to care or want to give me an explanation. Not sure what to do from here. Please help :[[[
dating, he was cheating on me with LOTS of men!
I knew that he was bisexual from day one so the men didn't shock me, it was the fact that he lied to me over and over and said "no" when I asked him if he wanted to be with other men. I mean he's 31 years old and he doesn't know what he wants yet?!
One night when I was coming out of the bathroom, I glanced over his shoulder and saw that he had an adam4adam account up in a sidetab. His explanation was, "I talk to my friends on here." Why the hell would anyone just have "friends" on adam4adam?! That didn't sit right with me. So that night I decided to guess his password for his adam4adam account and then I figured out his password to his gmail and there were endless emails from men and one woman about raunchy quick sex.
Reading this, I figured out that he lied to me about when he was coming home, what he was doing, and who he was with.
First I was hurt...then it pissed me OFF! I confronted him about it, broke up with him that night, and moved out the next day. I also trashed his apartment, peed in his shampoo, turned the heat up to 90 degrees (may, fl. weather), broke his cologne, took some things of his, hid the remotes, poured hot cottage cheese in his bed, mouthwash in his boots,and took all of the food out of the house except for a jar of relish.
Now I'm back at my place, STILL bitter and upset about the situation.
I understand I've taken it waaaay too far, but he really hurt me.
I moved out of my parents house into his apt. this crap.
Apparently this has been going on before me as well. Im confused because what was the point in moving me in for if he was going to run around?
He's also put my life in danger with sleeping around. I feel like this doesn't even faze him because he's been on a4a for the past few days, and going out every night.
I'm upset about the fact that he cheated, but bitter and angry that he doesn't seem to care or want to give me an explanation. Not sure what to do from here. Please help :[[[
Anonymous User
Asked May 19, 2010
Edited May 19, 2010
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he is shoush a llllllloooooooossssssseeeeeeeeerrrrrrrr!dont worry bout him
sierra Jun 21, 2010
