What do I do? I love a girl but she has a boyfriend

i luv a girl who has a boyfriend. he lives in other state. I and her first met in school, I noticed her looking at me a thousand times, so did my friends notice in school, they claim she luvs me but whatever....

so as I said we met in school, she looks at me a 1000 times, and if we happen to have eye contact [which we often have] she smiles at me and waves to me, sweet! once I tried to test her, I cracked up a lame joke to which she laughed as if it was the greatrest joke she ever heard, laughs at every humorous things I say

we went out maybe more than ten times, each of them seeming more like dates, like on 1 of our dates, 2nd one I think I put my hand on her waist the entire date and she didnt retreat or pull away, instead she started talking more about herself. saying what she expects from life and what love is to her, saying every vivid details of her life. her fav chiildhood experiences, what all names she will be keeping for her children and how she'll be a good mother to them.

she shows me the pix of her family and her bridal make up pics, all the pics in which she was beautiful, but she didnt show me her bf pic which was unusual as it would be the 1st thing she would do as soon as she would go out with her gang of friends

we chat late nights, once she asked me to rate her comparing to my dream girl, I did rate, later she rated me as her dream man, I was surprised to find out she almost accepted me as her dream man-she compared me with her dream man and as if I was THE ONE for her.

she would sms to my best friend that she is having problems with her BF. sms-es like- "this wasnt meant to be like this" "u dont understand me anymore" "am sick of it" :anyways take care". I think she did this bcoz she knows my best friend would share it with me.

last time when we went out she gave me all love songs to listen, claiming that those were her personal favs, I wouldnt have took it the other way if it were for just one love song she gave me to listen but 10 love songs???

many other things- like she hates digs, but after finding how much I love dogs, she says she likes dogs too but not which bite, then I said I like football [where as she hated the game bcoz of so much violence in the game] the next day she discusses with me about my most fav football club and that she loves the game very much

before going out with me, she asks me what cloths she'd wear,

then when it gets really late night, I say her goodnight-she says hmmmm u dont wanna chat with me I knew it anyways bye! [what the f---]

the problem is that I know she has a boyfriend, and even the BF's parents knows she is their son's girlfriend, and she is a very image concious girl, she thinks if she leaves her BF her friends would accuse her to be a character less girl and all...
amdebayan
Asked Apr 27, 2010
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chjchj Oct 28, 2010
tell her how u feel and tell her u would be better in every way if u thank shes the one tell her
I___need___her
Answered Apr 27, 2010
but how, what if she tells am sorry and I already got a BF, but then, why give me all hints? am bit confused
This can get serious. Like we know, its next to impossible to ask her about your relationship directly.

Maybe she is playing around to forget the fights between her and the boyfriend she loves, or she is really in love with you but can't get rid of the BF.

The only thing you could do is wait for her to take the next step. Try to be like her.. talk the way she do, love the things she loves. Let her know you're serious and between time have a slight conversation about her boyfriend. These are typical situation, we can hardly guess what she's upto. But try your best and figure her out.. if YOU love her - Get her. Make her your love! :)
simpleman
Answered Apr 30, 2010
talikng about being similar to her, she's the one who tells me everytime

"how similar we are, no wonder we were twins in our previous birth, thank god we arent twins this birth"

and she stares at me many times, I touch her and she takes it without a hitch

and

whenevr I try to talk about that guy of her-she immediately switches the topic, like I asked her-hows that guy of yours, she says-must be fine, and then suddenly changer the topic

i think that her saying to me that I matched the characterestics of her dream man was a step she took on her behalf

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