Hello all, A new neighbor Abbie (and her boyfriend of about 10 months moved into my complex recently and shes, not to sound so cliche, but perfect. I know the difference between a lusty fresh crush and a caring, willing to sacrifice greatly (within reason), mature relationship. im 25.. I make a decent living, my own place, decent car, and pretty experienced in the relationship field, (habbit of long terms (5 and all between 2-5 years, never married) ive written songs for ex's and ive never regret letting a girl in my head and showing her the affection she deserves.but she leaves me breathless and thought clustered.. life is short, honesty, loyalty, and integrity mean ALOT to me. ""Live.Laugh.Love""
I feel bad shes in a relationship, and hate being "that guy" but after hearing them fight everyday, him ruining her day "mikey, this is the worst birthday ever, he just f*ckn yelled all nite n now on the kitchen floor drunk with the spins," and never appreciating the smart, sweet, funny, kind, full of life, creative, beautiful girl that she is..(23, deans list, and Bachelors in psych)
shes stuck because she lost everything moving in with him and has nowhere to go if she leaves now. I helped her getting a job and shes so happy so shes trying in a mature sensitive but mostly straight up way that she doesnt want to be with him anymore, and he just blows her off till shes vulnerable then talks down and manipulates her in the nicest way to make her feel bad about herself and that she needs him.
Weve been seeing each other romantically about a month now, and shes not a mushy person, but I bring out this sweet cuddly free to be herself amazing girl that I guess shes never shown anyone to this extent. I believe I feel stronger then her understandably as shes not able to give her 100% yet but its not hard to see were just insanely happy 2gether..
to all who read this thank you and sorry for all these long details, but I value whatever opinion given to me, I just want to know am I wrong for not waiting until shes single? I know its wrong but as im sure all of you know, love makes you do crazy things
she plays a lil hot and cold sometimes..... but not just after being intamate, but just sitting on the couch holding hands, the way we look at each other has never been experienced before. words couldnt explain, and would insult it trying to attempt. its passion we both thought wasnt possible.
her last text, (she wont mind lol) "I love how much I just enjoy spending time with you...i dont care what else were doing but I just like being around you:blush:"
What should I do, back off and slow down. or listen to the heart jump in and show her she deserves to not be in front or behind anyone, but along side me. she deserves to be understood and loved by being herself. when im with her she makes me feel like im the only guy in the world.
heres a pic of each of us, visuals sometimes help. especially when asking to be judged lol
http://i616.photobucket.com/albums/tt246/percaset/n53301025_30017367_5052.jpg
http://i616.photobucket.com/albums/tt246/percaset/24282_331609796560_535196560_415042.jpg
thanks all !!
Mikey
I feel bad shes in a relationship, and hate being "that guy" but after hearing them fight everyday, him ruining her day "mikey, this is the worst birthday ever, he just f*ckn yelled all nite n now on the kitchen floor drunk with the spins," and never appreciating the smart, sweet, funny, kind, full of life, creative, beautiful girl that she is..(23, deans list, and Bachelors in psych)
shes stuck because she lost everything moving in with him and has nowhere to go if she leaves now. I helped her getting a job and shes so happy so shes trying in a mature sensitive but mostly straight up way that she doesnt want to be with him anymore, and he just blows her off till shes vulnerable then talks down and manipulates her in the nicest way to make her feel bad about herself and that she needs him.
Weve been seeing each other romantically about a month now, and shes not a mushy person, but I bring out this sweet cuddly free to be herself amazing girl that I guess shes never shown anyone to this extent. I believe I feel stronger then her understandably as shes not able to give her 100% yet but its not hard to see were just insanely happy 2gether..
to all who read this thank you and sorry for all these long details, but I value whatever opinion given to me, I just want to know am I wrong for not waiting until shes single? I know its wrong but as im sure all of you know, love makes you do crazy things
she plays a lil hot and cold sometimes..... but not just after being intamate, but just sitting on the couch holding hands, the way we look at each other has never been experienced before. words couldnt explain, and would insult it trying to attempt. its passion we both thought wasnt possible.
her last text, (she wont mind lol) "I love how much I just enjoy spending time with you...i dont care what else were doing but I just like being around you:blush:"
What should I do, back off and slow down. or listen to the heart jump in and show her she deserves to not be in front or behind anyone, but along side me. she deserves to be understood and loved by being herself. when im with her she makes me feel like im the only guy in the world.
heres a pic of each of us, visuals sometimes help. especially when asking to be judged lol
http://i616.photobucket.com/albums/tt246/percaset/n53301025_30017367_5052.jpg
http://i616.photobucket.com/albums/tt246/percaset/24282_331609796560_535196560_415042.jpg
thanks all !!
Mikey
Asked Apr 10, 2010
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Hey if you ever get this answered, I would love to know because i'm in the same boat, Mine is that he won't leave her because he has 2 kids with her, and she won't let him see them if he leaves. Their both unhappy and it sucks so bad. but just let me know what happened my email's lizsandraramirez@hotmail.com
xxLizsandraxx Aug 25, 2010
