Is she into me? or am I just fooling myself?

okay, so here's the deal. i'm in high school and i'm bi. none of my school friends know this (except this person I really don't consider a friend anymore because we don't talk anymore). & i've been liking on this girl for a few months. she's so easy to talk to. really layed back and outgoing. okay with just bout anything. and she's definitely into sports. she's completely opposite of me! i'm quiet and reserved. i'm smart (not saying she's dumb) & i'm definitely a worriwart & paraiod. and I think too deeply into everything. i'm pretty sure she's bi herself because her friend kinda of told. but I also know the girl she was with isnt anything like me. she's really touchy-feely (the girl she was with before). and like I said im more reserved. I don't think i'm her type.

well, lately, i've been talking to her more. not so much in person because she makes nervous! but, yes I do talk to her in person just not a lot. I cant look her in the eye too long because I think she'll think i'm staring. i've honestly never liked someone as much as I do her. she makes me happy just by talking to her & makes me smile! i'm gonna tell you some of the things she does and I want you to tell me what you think.

she comes to me everytime for help on tests. this one makes me think i'm just being used but she talks with everyone! yet i'm the one she comes to for tests and I sit far from her while someone, who just had the same test as me & is smart & she talks to, sits right across from her. she gives me hugs. she calls me love. she let's me ask her the dumbest questions & doesn't care how random I am (i truely am random). lets me vent bout family issues and my self-absorbed friends. i'm the one who always texts her and I feel like sometimes i'm the one keeping the conversation going. there are times that she'll text me 1st but it rarely ever happens. like i'll tell you this one incident.
we had been texting all day. dont remember bout what. but we were both going to this big get-together thing and we had stopped talking like 2 hours ago so we could get ready. we both knew the other was going and I was running like 10 mins late. well on my way she texted me asking where was i. told her I was just running late & asked her who was all there (at this point I thought that she was waiting by herself with none of her friends there. thats why I thought she txted me). she said only a few & I should look for her as soon as I walk in the door. so I get there & the only people not there were like me & two others (not a few!). she's right there. surrounded by her friends (so there went my idea bout her waiting with no friends. in fact, she even brought one of them!). I greet her from behind (she had her back to the door) and she turns to give me a hug & tells me to pull up a chair. well they had that table surrounded so I went to the next table. (i may be quiet and shy but im very friendly and talk easy once a conversation starts.) well im talking and I go to check my phone for the time & I find a message from her asking hows my table. (she rarely txts me 1st). well I answer but we dont txt the whole time we're there. well, she seemed to be enjoying herself at her table. at the end of the thing, i'm on the phone with someone while waiting with a friend of mine & she comes from behind me and hugs me goodbye (didnt see her coming. too busy on the phone).
that was just one incident. what do you think? i've told myself sooo many times that I should crush these feeling I have for her because I don't think she's ever be into me that way because we are so different. but everytime I do, she does something that makes me think I might have a chance. I don't really know what to think anymore but I want to do something about it soon so I wanna know if i've got a chance.

hey im excatly like and in the same situation. I meet this girl up the road and we talked I got her number and we texted for a few weeks. like you said it always the boy that text's first sometimes she did but that was when she was bored and had nothing else to do but I asked a girl in my school about it and she said girls dont start the convo because the prefer to be texted first. (just a tip) so one day I asked her to meet up she said yes but never said a day I asked a few more times down the weeks and the same thing happened. so 1 day I just went for it (it hurst more not knowing trust me) I told her how I felt about her and she said she wasnt sure if she like me as a freind or more than that. so we stopped talking for a while because I was really depressed and then I said to her one day that I was sorry for not wanting to be freinds and said I would rather be freind than not know her at all because I love talking to her and I will always like her more than a freind im sure. but all you need to do is open up to her tell her how she makes you feel and if she shut you down like sayin I just wanna be freinds then go with it just be their for her when she needs you, like when she is upset comfort her and maybe she willl realise that your the one for her because you sound like a really cool guy.

good luck

So here's the best frikin tip I ever got:
Invite her to your house for a movie (or someplace where you can sit next to her for a good few minutes) and make sure your thighs touch. I'm not saying one section touching, but like almost your whole leg. Then, if she doesn't move away after a few minutes, put your hand on your thigh and slowly slide it over so the tip is touching yours. if she still doesn't move away then just wait until your time is almost over. At this point look at her face and give her a compliment (whispered). if she responds well, lie your head on her shoulder and go from there :).

just curious - what zodiacal sign is she? and you too?
I wouldn't say she liked you, until I read about this stuff with the get-together thing. And of course she won't seem not enjoying her table. ;) even if she doesn't. But it is a good sign - she thinks about you and seems she is really kind with you. Yeah, from what I read, I think she likes you.
I am a bit late, so what happened? :)