even with men who are attractive..
most all women want what they cannot have and are attracted to those who show a slight disinterest as well.
In other words.. let them come to you because they are comfortable and not threatened by your desire.
never corner them mentally or physically.. let them feel at ease and trust you.
they are fraidy cats in general. so go slow
you cannot force love or interest..
it has to be there..
you can however get a woman curious by having or doing things that are different, progressive , interesting or unique.. this also has to be normal not on the bizarre side.
Making money always impresses women as they like security or to feel secure.
But I imagine too that you want a woman to like you for you.. and not your money. it cannot buy true love..
my advice if I had to do it over again...
is to be yourself .. trust yourself.. and believe that you are worth it.
and love will find you...
you do not need to chase it.. but one day you will find it next to you walking in the same direction.
As for your heart aching...
use this as a tool to make your feelings deeper and your sensitivity towards other richer...
it can make you a wonderful soul if you do not give up but find a way to be enriched by the pain..
become stronger by it..
become the rock that they want to feel secure resting on- women like strong sensitive men.. strong of heart and mind.
(trust me on this.. all people have heart aches.. it is normal.. but in different degrees)
life too is timing... so be ready and open for what God gives you...
and never give up hope.. your day will come !!
Answered Mar 24, 2010
Edited Mar 24, 2010