Well, to continue with the story, we talk, not that much, but we both consider each other to be friends, she says she is bi, but she seems pretty straight to me. She is the kind of girl that goes hugging everyone and telling them she loves them, etc...
She had a boyfriend and recently broke up with him, and one of these days she starting acting really nice with me, she wanted to hug me all the time and to hold my had, but she is like that so I thought it was nothing, she continued to do this and even said she likes me, and that my boyfriend is very lucky, but I'm not sure if she is being honest or just playing games or joking.
I have broken up with my boyfriend now, and she seems to act the same, but we went out as friends and nothing happened, I thought that now that I was single, she would make a move or something, but she didn't, and I don't want to make any move since I'm not sure if she really likes me or not, it would be completely akward if I tried to do something and she rejects me and says she was just joking, that's why I need to be sure if she is honest or not about her feelings.
I even asked her once, indirectly of course, and she says she really likes me, but I'm not sure about it, what should I do? do you think she likes me?
I'm in this exact situation right now, except I'm the one who's bi and she's the one who is questioning her sexuality. And I'm the one whose afraid to make a move. And you completely described me when you were talking about how she goes around hugging people and telling them she loves them. :) I hope you figured out your situation.
I have a crush on this girl (obviously since I'm commenting here I'm a girl, too) and I had a guy-friend ask her if she had a boyfriend. It went all wrong and he asked her if she liked girls. He was just trying to help, but then she got offended by him and stopped talking to him. She had found out by herself (because while chatting to both of them I said that I had a crush on someone from our school) that the guy asked because I liked her. She said that she didn't like girls that way... I like her a lot and as much as it hurt, I got it over with and I'm not giving up! I feel like she might fall for me! Bottom line is just ask. Directly. It might suck if they say no, but at least you'll have a weight off your chest!
thats soooooo true. if you're not sure if they'll take it right like that, bring up the topic by asking her how she feels about same sex marriages. if it pans out well, then your in for the clear and ask. good luck tho. oh and also this can work for you too SaysayElise. and welcome to the LGBTQ community!