That would be a very selfish thing for you to do. Think of the child for god sake, It would be very hard for that child going to school and other functions and always having to explain that you are not his grandmother but his or her mother. I'm 48 and I have a six year old grandson that is a true joy in my life. How would someone of your age be able to keep up with all of the activities, like sporting avents or just running and chasing around a child. When that child would go to college or get married that would make you how old? Think hard before making a life time decision that doesn't only involve you and your mate.
Really? I'm 60 years old and more active than alot of people in their 40's! I chase grandchildren around all the time! I'm always asked to watch kids! I'm a very young 60 year old! I'm healthy and in great shape. And if it weren't for my hair color, most people don't believe my age! I say, if GOD blesses you with a baby, love it with all you've got! How dare anyone condemn you before they know the whole story! I am 8 years older than my husband, who never had children of his own and I would have done anything to give him the child he deserved. Follow your heart Mamma! Blessings!
Amen sister.People only wish for a child at any age and if you are blessed to have one ,it was a meant to be,so some people criticize , wishing they were able to have such a special child at any time.pray for yhose as well as I pray for all of us who want a child with the man they love.