Why didn't she say bye to me?

My crush and her family were at my house Friday night (mainly to pick her brother up). When it was time for them to leave, I alone walked them out to their car. Her mom and brother said good night to me, but for some reason she didn’t. There were past times when she did. Like one time, she said “good night” while directly looking at me and another time when I said “bye” to her brother, she said bye to me, but probably because she thought I said it to her.

She would also show other signs such as looking at me when I’m not looking at her, mimicking me, talks to people she knows about me, shows concern for me if she thinks I’m in trouble, her friends act differently around me, blushes around me, etc.

Now I know she’s very shy, but she did say “bye” before leaving the house (though very softly). Since she didn’t say bye to me directly, I figure that it was directed more at my parents.

Hello. Are you sure she heard you? Perhaps she was in deep thought, distracted or was unable at the time to express what she was thinking or feeling. There could be so many possibilities. It's thoughtful of you to empathize and try to understand one you care about. Don't let what you wonder worry you. Theorizing is one thing. Assuming is another. Why not try telling her you are curious about her response. It's a comfortable feeling to feel understood and have someone you care about know you understand them. The more we care to understand, the more we attempt to. The art of communication can be a wonderful thing to grow on in any relationship. In time we understand the other more and more. It's a part of each relationship that needs nurtured, and considered regularly. Hope this helps. I have to add, nothing works without God. I know this, learned this, and without Him as a base, "foundation", first. We tear it down ourselves. Trust me friend. I'm not perfect but I've been through A LOT. I'm no "Holy roller", but that IS the truth. You can even do EVERYTHING else right. Might even appear or feel accomplished for awhile, but don't be deceived. All things are possible if you believe...Mark 9:23. Also, somewhere else in the bible it says A wise man seeks wisdom. (in Proverbs? I think) So, hey, you ARE on the right track. Pray for wisdom. He's got ALL the answers. Take care.-* Stardust

I think she has it 4 u but u have 2 wait 4 more signs like this boy liked me but I had no idea, but then I saw more signs and before I could ask him he gave me a bracelet, a necklace, and a cute little cup thing with hearts on it...and when he gave them 2 me I knew he had a crush on...i acted like I didn't no and he told me himself..good luck!