My sister stole my boyfriend

ok so this guy is like the love if my life and i was talking to him the other day and he messaged me and said i love you but i dont think we can stay together im sorry and i instently started crying ive been dateing him for 3 months and we have been off and on for over a year now so i texted him back and said ok but what about the dance and he said well i said what he said i kinda already have a new date to the dance i said who he said my girlfriend i said whos that he said i cant say i said why he said just because then he sent me a blank messege and it just had his signature -ily skjm- and that was the biggiest problem.... those were my sisters inistials. so ive been crying for the past 6 days and havent talked to my sister since and i dont want to but how do i get him baack in my arms what do i say to make him feel bad and notice my feelings that im going through with all of this.
missyoutdjm
Asked Feb 09, 2010
girl thats DEEP SO LETS START you should tell him face to face when hes not around tour sister and just tell him what you feel about that and tell him also hes making the BIGGEST MISTAKE EVER HIS LIFE BELONGS WITH YOU AND ONLY YOU.this might sound wrong but fake date someone hotter than you laugh and chat get each other cellphone numbers.then we hes calling just annoy him and when you two are done call him back and say I was on the phone with MY NEW BOYFRIEND, and that should the trick if does NOT WORK TEXT LAZHENRYIA BACK and ill give you more advice yo help you with your problems peace dont forget to text me back if that does NOT WORK!!!!!!!
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If he left you for your sister, then he's an asshole. Find another guy to make him mad and then you could have him back in your arms.
Loveninjacreato
Answered Feb 26, 2010
You know, I generally avoid these relationship questions, not because I don't know anything about them, but because every relationship is a different and personal experience to the people whom are in the relationship, but I've seen this question getting answered, and I just have to say something.

People keep saying make him jealous so he'll come back to you. In my opinion, that's terrible advice. He left you for your sister, that means one of several things. 1) He's just not that into you. 2) He's shallow. 3) He's just a jerk. Either way, you shouldn't want him back. You should move on with your life and find a better guy. If you find the right guy, he won't leave you for someone else, especially not your own sister because no matter how you look at it, that's extremely disrespectful to you. You need to go find just the right guy for you, not try to win him back when he's probably just leave you later for someone else or date your sister behind your back. Furthermore, what kind of a person would that make you? You'd be no better than your sister. You need to be the bigger woman and just move on.
Oni_Kami
Answered Feb 26, 2010
I'll second that. He won't be jealous - he's already moved on. To your sister of all people! Although it is difficult you need to try to move on with your life. Don't just rush to someone else - you may feel like that helps, but it won't - and it won't be fair on your rebound-skank-to-be. You need to take a breath, learn from it, and move on.
kizl Mar 31, 2010
the world at large appear sometime being a mirage but it doesnt mean the lust of things which are not seen love is trust,truth,care and strong affection.wait for a while in test of if he truly love you after that give him a bold front mind you feel no remorse of the past event,talk frankingly to him and leave immidiately never go back or call .forget the past and test for affection.
omuye
Answered Feb 17, 2010
Well I ve been through it.It sucks first of all you make him jealous of u if you get him back example with his buddy and u act like that u dont care bout him let him feel regretful and when he close to you tell ur feelings hopin it works . Good luck.
reginash_
Answered Feb 19, 2010
Sorry...to say this.. but what a b**ch! MAKE HIS BUTT JELLOUS THAT HE DID WHAT HE DID! lol. I mean, show him what he messed up and lost! Be happy...act happy... to both of them. Show them that your better then them... and I guarentee you... they will both regret! I caught my sister in bed with my now ex.boyfriend... and it sucked. But..I went and found someone and was happy and showed them both...then my ex.boyfriend would come over any chance he got and tried to be with me again.... well, NO WAY...go on and leave him. There is so many other men out there who would love to be with a devoted woman like you!
n8tivegrl
Answered Feb 23, 2010
in my situation right now my ex bf likes my twin sister and they were thinkin bout hookin up but bcz I snapped out on both of them they decided not to, even tho there hangin out togeather since I found out. I was gunna try not talkin to either of them but instead im just gunna pretend to be really nice to them both and get some answers outta them. :D
randee
Answered Mar 07, 2010
First of all why would you want him back? I't sounds like you've wasted enough time with him. Life is to short to waste your time on jerks like that. Bite the bullet and move on. If you are willing to take him back, what else are you willing to put up with.
Theresa
Answered Mar 09, 2010
what do I do if my lover doesnt know if I love him and he likes my 9 year old sister ps;me and him are both 13!!!!!!???????
moonlight3
Answered Feb 19, 2011
lmfao! grow up, you were outdone by your sister, accept she's better for him than you are, obviously. Just move on.
Jacen8765
Answered Dec 15, 2011

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