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my first wife mother told me she didnt have one to after her 4th child and my first wife has never had one she still trying the only way she can get one is play with herself or by mouth my second wife was 19 before she had one and she had 25 boyfriends before me she didnt even know what it was when she did it . women want to make like its the men but its really u when u have one u ll have it dont worry about it