well, I want to be a fashion designer and doing a short course on it, I have been offered an opportunity do organise my own fashion show, I will be in charge of the whole show but the volunteer organisers will help me every step of the way if I have problems. my sister says it's a good idea but because I've never done a fashion show before, I'm not going to be able to handle it as I will be in charge of everything and that if anything goes wrong she's not gonna be there but she's just a phone call away. She says find volunteering work that involves supervision in fashion and knows more about the fashion industry. She says this volunteer organiser knows nothing about fashion, she's just going to help you set up an event, how would she know where to get models, clothes. It seems she's giving me advice but I know she's taking my shine away from me. she knows I'm hard working and it's not a problem for me but in every opportunity I get, she says that I can find better. she and my mum says they are helping me but they always disagree with my decisions. they say that this opportunity is for people who have had experience in the events industry and because I don't have experience, it's just going to fall down. am I taking this the wrong way or are they the one taking my shine away from me.
even when I wear something nice, they look at what I'm wearing and says it's tacky. I told them that I don't care and they say that if someone says something is tacky to them, they would change it. but if something looks tacky from one's point of view, it might not be tacky from another's point of view. we went shopping together and I went to a coffee shop and had a blue jacket, everyone loved it and my mum was looking at me and whispering to my sister saying that my jacket is tacky and vulgar and gave me a disapproving look at what I was wearing and when I approached them, my sister says that my gold belt doesn't go with my silver bag. who cares?
Asked Jan 23, 2010
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