I need help to pay my bills

I'm looking for help because I do not makes enough money to
pay my rent,car payment,my bills,and now my ticket for speeding
I'm getting this ticket by accident I never have any ticket on my life before and now I do not what to do, I have to pay ,I'm a single mom
and I need my driver license to bring my daughter to the doctor,school,
etc,I come from a violence domestic and I'm trying to survive with my daughter but I do not makes enough money to survive , can you help me please,
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Jan 13, 2010
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how can you help me
toffie2 Sep 06, 2010
Well, I hope you're asking for advice, and not money, because no one is going to give you money here, and it's incredibly stupid to ask. Have you filed for welfare? You're on a computer, so have you tried canceling your internet and selling your computer? Your speeding ticket wasn't given to you by mistake, if it was you would have fought it in court and it would have been appealed, but if that was the case, you wouldn't have mentioned the ticket at all. Anyways, no one is going to send you money on the internet. I'd start explaining, but there are SOOO many reasons. Good luck.
Oni_Kami
Answered Jan 13, 2010
I not ask for money I'm asked for help all I want to know where can I find some help ,who can tell me what I need to do ,where I can go because right now I'm in a very bad situation,I'm sorry if you getting wrong my question,I never had a ticket before ,also I need computer with internet to search for cure for daughter for better medicine for her ,my ticket I got it by accident,because that day I just get off of the hospital,and I was driving withouth sleep anything at all during the night,I never drive fast I'm sorry if I ask for help in a wrong way wrong web ,thank you
guavil Jan 14, 2010
Well, again, the ticket wasn't an accident. You were driving with sleep depravation, which for whatever reason, no matter how unavoidable, is a bad idea and completely your fault. You were speeding, you got a ticket, there's no accident involved (unless you crashed your car, which is technically a car accident, however it would still be your fault for driving without sleep, assuming the other person didn't hit you. ANYWAYS... You don't need to research better medicines for your daughter, that's what doctors are for. You should sell your computer and stop paying for internet to pay off your bills and tickets. A computer is a luxury item, you don't NEED luxuries, you should SELL luxuries to handle your NECESSITIES.
Oni_Kami- For Your Info People do use the internet to research answers and better treatment ect for a child that is sick, every time my Daughter was given a new med or Diagnosed with something new I researched it. And as for you, you have no heart for someone in need of help and I hope your perfect life falls apart and you need help and get the same treatment.Guavil I hope you found help if not call your local Social Service office,Salvation Army,local churches,United Way 211,apply for assistance,(Food stamps,cash,Medical) and you can also ask your child's school if you have one in school if the can help
If I could I would help you out but our Family Business is on it's last leg with the economy the way it is.
MsMe Feb 01, 2010
"For Your Info People do use the internet to research answers and better treatment ect for a child that is sick" Never said people don't do this, I simply stated that it's not necessary. There are medical journals in the local library full of information on modern day medications, or you could use the computer at your local library, or just trust your physician. Point is, it's not necessary to own a computer to research medicine, and if you're having money problems, it's a good idea to sell your computer.

Furthermore, I do not have a perfect life, it's far from it. I'm just honest, and if people like you can't take the truth, then that's your problem, not mine.

Your comments towards me are full of false assumptions, your writing mechanics are dreadful, and you attacked me even though I offered valid useful advice. I'd just like to point out to you that that's pretty sad.
Well god-of information it sounds as if you never been on hard times. I take your insensitivity as part of you being ignorant. It isn't as easy as you suggest. By the way libraries have computers and she could be using that. Best of luck to you guavil and to you oni_kami, may you never have it hard but if karma is true you will.
cfergie Mar 30, 2010
I saw this same sad story on Craigs list. People are not going to just meet up with you and pay your bills. Call a charity for some help.
MsRobin
Answered Jan 13, 2010
I think that is the whole point of the this ladies post. She wants to find help, she needs OPTIONS. Yall are some heartless ass people. If you cant offer any helpful suggestions why even post anything. Obviously you people are bored with your lives and need something to do but kicking people when they are down is not the way to go. God does not like ugly!
There is also the option of using a pawn shop if you need money for a short period.

There are online options if going to one is not your thing.

I ran a quick search and both online pawn and one called smart term loans look pretty legit.

Good Luck!
JohnFontana
Answered Jan 21, 2010
What state do you live in? I used to run a place in town that is useful to people in your situation. We help with referals to specific agencies that can help you with you situation. I also can relate to you. I too left an abusive relationship about 11 years ago. It is very hard to do but remember no matter how hungry you get or how long your lights may be cut off it's better than being treated worse than a dog.Please don't go back to him. Let me help you out.
Rachel
Answered Feb 01, 2010
Get a second job lose the car take the bus stop speeding ask your family to help take care of her while you work
Bounty
Answered Feb 12, 2010
Some people do not live close to a bus line.
cfergie Mar 30, 2010
That's what bikes and skateboards are for.
Oni, I live 20 miles from work and there are no buses or taxis out here...why so angry at this person for looking for assistance? I work full time, don't live off the state or government and I personally can't afford my bills this month, i'm about $400 short...why isn't this something you understand? Were you born rich or what's the story?
Alic Apr 01, 2011
I'm glad that i'm not the only one that feels that Omi_Kami should understand that this is a site for asking questions. She or he thinks that it is his or her job to monitor this site with proper spelling, punctuation and what can and cannot be asked, or posted. Is this not ehelp?
Theresa
Answered Mar 30, 2010
As you can see on my profile, I'm male. Anyways, I do the spelling correcting for fun. At one point I even worked as a proof-reader. I do monitor this site in the way a moderator would, but that's just to help out Ryan because he's a nice guy, and being the only admin, and creator, he doesn't have all the time in the world (which I don't either, but two people looking for infractions are more efficient than one). Furthermore, as for what cannot be asked or posted are posts that are flaming other users, posts containing inappropriate material (e.g. child pornography), posts that include personal information (Ryan could get in a lot of trouble if he allowed such a thing), spam, double-posts (as that's just spam), and advertising. You're probably referring specifically to when I tell people that they should search the site before posting their questions, because they've already been asked
by other users, and I do this for several reasons. 1) it's really just a double post, 2) people would get answers much quicker if they just read an answer that's already posted rather than posting again and waiting for an answer, and 3) when I post such a thing, I include links to the other posts so the user can see already-posted answers. Oh and by the way, I encourage people to only post answers as answers, and comments as comments, because it keeps the site more organized, and it's set up that way for a reason (plus Ryan encourages it too, and on this site, his word is law). So you yourself should really have posted that as a comment, which I've told you many times before, because it does not answer the post at hand. Yes, this is eHelp, and you are not helping right now, where as I have not only provided help in the form of an answer, but I also help Ryan keep this site clean.
I would suggest a number of things although I would note that I'm not a financial advisor.

Firstly, is there anything you can sell? You have the Internet so get on ebay and sell off what you don't really need.

Is this a temporary cashflow problem or something that is ongoing? Could you downsize where you live to reduce your outgoings? Look for the deals and offers at the supermarket rather than buying the same old (possibly not the cheapest) brand.

Speak to the bank about consolidating your debt. A credit card it generally accepted as having a high interest rate. Roll all of your cards and loans - car loan etc. into one personal loan - this way you only have one loan bill to pay every month rather than several.

these are just a few of the ways that you could look to save some money. I hope it helps.
kizl
Answered Mar 31, 2010
My name is Paige Rogers I am a 22 year old single mother I am currently attending ITT Tech College but I have just lost my job and I am needing a little help but have no idea where to get it please help me you can contact me at paigerogers0630@yahoo.com
I can use a job right away.
paige0630
Answered Jul 21, 2010
If you can prove and really believe that you are a good person with strong morals and even a stronger faith, I know that I can most assurededly help all of you single parents, infirmed, hungry, broke, depressed, male, female, gay, lesbian, and all down and outters.

Help will always be there for you under all circumstance. Put your trust, heartfelt loving, generousity, caring and sharing for your fellow brothers and sisters of every iminaginable denomination, race, core belief's, and desire to set yourself free, go to the light side, remove yourself from the dark side.

There is a website willing to share everything you need, go to the League of paying it Forward@linkedin.com
Remember how this correspondence began and be prepared to be helped.
givinis4me
Answered Jul 21, 2010
Sorry to hear about your sad situation annonymous and to see that some people can be insensitive in their responses. These issues affect real people and know that you are not the only one in that position.

The number one thing I would encourage you to do is to find a good bible believing churh near you. You can't carry on in your own strength like that, I know God will heaal all your wounds.

The other thing if your are really serious, will be that you shouldn't sell your computer, instead use it wisely, it can be the second answer to your dilema there is so many things you can do to make money on the internet nowardays if you really want to and I don't care what anyone says.

There is just no excuse if you are desperate enough I will give you this my guide to get you started.

Just copy and paste the following link into you browser.
http://www.supersuccessformula.com/a/Making_Money_Online_Made_Easy.html
ideasguy
Answered Jul 23, 2010
Edited Jul 23, 2010

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Answered Sep 22, 2010
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randywilliams
Answered Oct 27, 2010
sounds like this male is a jerk and no feelings for people down and out,i know what its like to with out and I have struggle like crazy to make ends meet and I have no job and i'm 67 and can not find one,as every one here I live just want to hire the school kids that maybe will come to work late or just call in and say they are sick so that makes the company suffer because there is not enough help.but anyway I don;t know if ther a charity that halps
in your county,or action commission that helps with some bills,no tickets as that is something that you will have to take care.and please don't take out a loan as that will put you behind again as they add a lot of interst and never go to the united kingdom as that is spam.take care of your daughter and keep looking on that
computer for the best medicene but I will tell you that there is only one that can help you and it takes alot of beliveing and praying but "god" is ther waiting for to asked and you shall receiveand anionte that little girl with the oil of christ and make her hole again, god loves you. take care
sunnyface
Answered Nov 09, 2010
I don't see you going to the government. We pay millions in taxes. Take advantage of it. Next go to a good Bible believeing church. Dont forget salvation army.
poepad
Answered Dec 24, 2010
how to pay a bill
533409
Answered Mar 17, 2011
I hope you can find the help that you need. I am in a similar situation having always made a good amount of money and being able to provide for myself and my three children, suddenly found myself having to play nurse to my tiny baby girl. There are many programs set up in each state to help people in our situations. Because my daughter is so small, I used all of my time off to stay home after she was born but in California, we have paid family leave, which can supplement time you may need to take off if your child needs medical care up to six weeks. It pays to help make up for the time you may not be getting paid when you miss work. Unfortunately, having a full time job can prevent you from qualifying for many programs. Do not give up though, if you keep hope alive there is always a way to make it.

Ignore Oni_Kami and people like him who look down on you in your time of need. Not everything is black and white and some people are not sensitive to struggling. Oni_Kami really needs a job and to let this wonderful person who runs this site run it themselves because he is giving a site set up for people who need help a bad name. Nobody is going to want to come here if they are going to be treated like trash. You are absolutely in the right for trying to do the right thing and ask for advice. Keep your head up and try to sleep before driving, it is dangerous but I have been there after a month in the hospital being discharged in the middle of the night. :)
MsJacquie
Answered Jul 29, 2011
I'm 40 years old I have one daughter and taking care of my sick mother I need help paying my bills but how everybody in the world has acted I will take care of my own cause if I had to beg for money then I don't need it . I hope god will forgive .
ozzycindy
Answered Sep 10, 2011
I am in the same situaion. I am an unemployed school teacher who is out of u nemployemtn. My husband is a masters degree social worker. The governor cut both our jobs in Florida - he has cut close to 1000 jobs statewide and we both were affected. Unemployment is 1100 a month....... our house is 700, car is 350, insurance is 100 mso we are broke. N meds, doctor bills, lights, water, have to have the internet to look for a job and to file unmployment and food stamps. $35 a month on internet wouldn't go afr in paying what we don't have anyway. Already gave up cells and cable. I have 3 tv stations and 200 minutes a month on an emergency cell phone. What else does one expect us to give up? We will be homeless in less than 2 mon ths. Either there are hundreds applying for the same jobs we are, or we are over educated. We can't even get a job at McDonalds. There are hundreds applying and would you hire a masters degreee for a worker flipping burgers? We have food stamps, but did not get medicaid. My husbands folks are dead, so of course can't help. Mine said they won't - because they are 88 and need all of their money for a future nursing home!! We have 2 kids away from home in college and one with his own mortgage, child support, 2 cars, so he can't help. Glad the ignorant guy that keeps posting has all the answers. Until you have walked a mile in someone elses shoes you can't understand
Dhem3
Answered Oct 17, 2011

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