I have been with my bf for about 6 months now.Our relationship started out pretty rocky with him not wanting to be in a relationship then us falling in love.In the beginning he slept with another women which caused me to have alot of trust issues with him and still to this day does.Things seem like they are going fine until last night he came home really drunk from hanging at the bar with his friends.He came home told me he didnt love me and hated me..Then just passed out.His phone kept going off so i picked it up to turn it on silent only to find his ex gf is calling him over and over again.I answer the phone and she ends up telling me this whole story about how he called her to say he didn love me anymore he loves her and wants to get back together with her just confessing he is still in love with her.She told me he did this all thru texts so i check his texts and sure enough its all there..So im pretty upset and i was getting my stuff to go sleep at a friends house not wanting to be there with him..He wakes up and asks what im dong and so on..He gets upset that im breaking up with me and brakes a bunch of things in angry crying.He doesnt remember calling or texting his ex or doing anything pretty much.He then tells me its me he loves and he does not understand what is going on but he loves me and wants me and all that stuff..so we talk for awhile but im still pretty hurt about the things he said to his ex..how could he love me but say that stuff to her..I just dont know how i feel or what to do???Im so hurt and cuz he does not remember doing any of this he just doesnt seem to understand how much he hurt me..i feel like he picked her over me at a time of his worst.And he keeps telling me over and over i dont love her i dont know where that came from i would rather die then be with her i want to love you forever and be with you forever..I just am so confused.
Asked Jan 05, 2010
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