I am going through an extremely difficult time with my father. He is paying for an extravagant wedding in 26 days (new years eve) and is very manipulative, unpredictable, and verbally abusive. He has always been extremely difficult to deal with but I was able to feel better about our relationship, and myself, once I became independent of him. He blocked me from any financial involvement from the beginning of the process by saying, "don't worry! it will be a great night." however, now that the wedding is less than a month away, he's trying to blame me for bills being sky-high. He is the type of person to never admit any faults, he offers me the world but then holds it over my head, loves me one minute and calls me a spoiled brat the next. I'm going through so many emotions right now. I have had enough of the verbal and emotional abuse - I don't even want the wedding anymore! help!