How can i get over my boyfriend?

So i'm young and got too deep in love and now it's so hard to leave the relationship even though I know it's unhealthy :-( sad what should I do??
kimmy
Asked Jan 01, 2010
i no how you feel im in the same road as you and dont no what to do.i want it over but i love him and i dont want to go through the pain of it..
kris Jan 01, 2010
let him call you
girly0207
Answered Jan 01, 2010
Edited Jan 01, 2010
maybe you should act weird and he will brake up with u if thats what u want
lightstar77
Answered Jan 01, 2010
This hurts, and crying about it just prolongs the pain. Try imigining that he has died and is no longer available...sounds crazy, but it worked for my friend. I, on the other hand, cried for a year and wasted 12 good months!!!! So, my advice: stop the crying, stop the whining, get some self-respect, and MOVE ON DOWN THE LINE!!!!!!! BELIEVE ME: another one will come along!!!!!!
ps: I shutter with embarassement when I think of how long I cried and whined.....don't want you to have to experience that!!!! Get some back bone!!!
vernon514
Answered Jan 02, 2010
I totally understand ur feeling. It really hurts and will take a long time to recover. But u know, that's life. Try to do some sports or travel. Or u can tell ur best friends. Dont keep to urself, sometimes speaking out is a good way.
ryansfan
Answered Jan 03, 2010
Edited Jan 03, 2010
this was also a question i had to ask myself an still to this day i caint get over that certain someone..........................it hurts me but all i know is that i gotta let em go.
iyodi2
Answered Jan 09, 2010
sometimes when you get too comfortable with someone even though they treat you badly or things aren't working you choose to stick around and you can't bring yourself to break up with him. I've been there. I had a million people telling me what I should do , giving me advice. But when it came down to it, only I could decided when to let go. I had to be ready. If not you will keep going back to that person. Find your self worth honey. It is there somewhere. I'm sure he is a good person maybe just a shitty boyfriend. The hardest part is realizing that you don't need him to be happy. you only want him to be happy only you aren't happy at all. Walk tall honey you can do this.. When you are ready
FrankieEvans7
Answered Mar 02, 2010
its like I understand leaving it would hurt u like hell but I think if u keep it up and then later when things get more and more worse thn it will hurt alot more thn they will now!!!!its like dont stick with something because at some point of ur life it was good and was the reason for ur happiness rather see in the present when u know its unreliable,un healthy and is the reason of ur unhappiness or sadness!!!!Just do it!!it will hurt !!!but time will heal everything
kshitij0007
Answered Jun 06, 2010

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