Okay, so my boyfriend ALWAYS wants to hang out....

So, my boyfriend always wants to hang out but i never can because my parent's are strict on that stuff - we always text and talk on the phone and they know im dating him but like they don't want me hanging out with him ; it's mostly my dad but seriously, it's so frustrating, how are we supposed to see each other if my dad won't let me, also he's a freshmen in highschool and im a 8th grader in middle school so i don't see him at all ! so it really sucks, what should i do ? i can't just tell him my parent's don't let me, that would seem so lame. AH!

Just tell him your parents won't let you. It's not lame, it's the truth. If you're not going to be honest in a relationship, then don't be in a relationship at all. If your parents not letting you is not a good enough reason for him, then that's his problem. There are plenty of other more understanding fish in the sea. It's his loss, not yours. Besides, you're only in 8th grade, you can't honestly expect a relationship you start now to last you all the way through high school, marriage, college, etc... It's too soon to get so serious about everything, however, if you're going to be in a relationship, you must be honest, understanding, and trustworthy.

Its not lame! First your family . They know the best for you and your parents dont let you cause they are trying to keep you they are rite but I want you to enjoy in this relationship so you can go him at nite when they are all zonk out . Im really serious I used to do that .

i think ur parents are worrying.cos he is older than you and they think he can b dangerous 4 u.. i think you should invite him ur home.