Should the man open the door and pull out the chair when dating?

I'm seeing a man who is very good to me but when we go out he does not open the car door or pull out my chair in a restaurant. I'm in my 60's. I'm wondering if I'm being too old fashion by wanting this possible out of date expression of caring and respect. What is your take on it?

Ok, im a girl so i know all about this stuff. But I really think you should open a door and pull a chair out for her. Also, ALWAYS show your manners. that means no burping or rapping or taping your feet. Talk about nice stuff.
Good Luck!

Yes, rarely practiced. I do if given the chance.
I was raised to do so and I'm 49.

I think, in such situations, instead of acting or being fake, you should present your true self. Manners are of course a vital part of relationship, however, opening an honest heart is more important and affective than opening the door. Offering a chair is really loving and caring if it is done naturaly, not with the idea of impressing. However, all matters how frank and understanding both are with each other. If you are trading "customs" and "symoblic respects", probably you are far away in a relation than what you think you are in. Its my personal thought, I might be wrong.

Open doors for a lady is good and looks very gentlemen. But I think it also depends on the person's personality. However, it's not very important I think, something like sense of humor, personality are more important.

Hi, Im 47 yo. To me if you want me to treat you like a real man then you need you need to treat me like a real lady. Please, open the door for me and pull my chair out for me. Lovely you! I'll be happy to do little caring things for you too!

look im WAY younger than you but i think he should unless a: both arms broke b: is a monkey or c: is a jerk

One way to MAKE him do it, I'm guessing would be:

Don't open the door... and stay in the car until he opens it for you.
If he's out there waiting for you and doesn't want to look stupid, he'll understand what you're trying to say by staying inside. Look at him w/ expectance. Like you're waiting for him to do something. Don't look around and don't look like you're doing something because he'll think you're just busy doing something and will open the door (for yourself) when you're done.

Same with the chair. If he's doesn't want to look dumb, he'll understand that the fact that you're standing right next to the chair means he has to pull it out so that you can sit.

ONE has to demand these things.

Open the Door for her ? of course you must and maybe you could also sneak a peep up her skirt .
Pull achair out for her ? I do because then she has to lower herself before you and you can sneak a peep at her tits then .
ONLY A JOKE ! I do all these things and more and have done all my life - I was raised as a gentleman and it becomes part of you in life and no matter what type of person she is it must be done . After all its like foreplay , you will never hit base without it .
AND most importantly , you must cultivate a sense of humour as well !!

If you're crippled, stay in the car until he can open the door and help you get out. If he's near the chair when you are ready to sit down, it would be nice to pull the chair out for you. But, demanding certain actions from another person does not make for a good relationship. I'm 70 years old.

yes that is being a gentlemen

An elderly man escorted my second cousin to her car (she's in her thirties, he was sixties or olderi'm guessing) once, and it made my cousins whole day. Chivalry is NOT dead and it's so touching for man to do these things.=]

Absolutely! But now, men are not sure if they will offend a lady by doing so. I wouldn't take it personnally if he doesn't. But stand at the door and make him open it! Smile politely... he will take the hint.