Around late April we started talking a lot and she said that we should hang out once summer comes and she always seemed kind of flirtatious when we talked and it basically gave me a reason to get finally take drivers ed, get my license, get a car, job to pay for it, etc. In June she broke up with her boyfriend of 2-3 months and started talking to me a lot and told me that she liked me. I told her that I also liked her and that in a couple weeks I would get my car/license and we should hang out once I get I (I didn't ask her out because I really think you should only ask someone out in person). Before I got my license/car she said she had wanted to see this movie that i also wanted to see and i suggest we should go see it together, but she had plans with her friends to go see it. Then i finally got my license/car and told her about it and she didn't seem that interested and I kept suggesting we should hang out but she would say "yeah, but sorry have to go now. talk to you later". Basically for a little over a month she ignored me and nearly stopped talking to me.
Late August I managed to get a hold of her and talk to her for more than a min. and she was apologizing that she had been ignoring me and she felt horrible about it and asked me to forgive her. I forgave her and suggested we should get together sometime, this time hinting more that it should be a date. She got the hint said no sorry but id like to just be friends with you. so I was depressed and we didn't talk much or for very long after that (I hope she didn't expect me to instantly be friends with her again w/o any feelings for her) and it was always me who started the conversations. then I stopped and we didn't talk at all for a month.
At the start of November for the first time since before I got my car/license she started a conversation with me and we started talking a lot and on a Monday of last week she said we should hang out sometime of course I said yeah that would be great (something like that) I suggested that weekend but that was her last week of drivers ed, and she had auditions on Sunday (at the time she told me she had something to do on Sunday and she would surprise me with what it was on Sunday) but the next weekend she would like to. I talked to her on Tuesday and Wednesday but was unable to get a hold of her until the next Monday (and all through the weekend her status messages on AIM/Facebook/etc. were changing and it was then that I would try and get a hold of her, but she wouldn't reply.) She seemed cheerful as we talked and I congratulated her on her successful auditions but when I brought up us hanging out this weekend she said maybe she doesn't know if she has plans but if she didn't yes. I also asked her "you still want to hang out right" and she said of course she did. Tuesday the same thing that happened over the weekend happened and I was unable to talk to her. Today is Wednesday and again nothing from her.
I feel like the same thing is going to happen again (she acts like she likes me then before we can make plans to hang out she ignores me)
I am just wondering if anybody has any suggestions for what I should do, I really like this girl and I think she may still like me too and I would like to go out with her but she keeps avoiding me and I feel like she is just playing with my emotions. PLEASE HELP!
Thank you to anyone that leaves helpful comments =)
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You now dude I am also in love.And what I know is that when she avoids you she wants you go and get her.
eli Nov 28, 2009
so untrue! This same thing almost exact happened. Met girl last year, asked to hand, had bf she said yes though then ignored 6 months , then friends than 6 weeks conversation day and night, asked me to hand avoided, i asked, avoided, asked out after saying goodnight 3 weeks in a row of AIM's all day , denied her feelings acted weird still won't admit and now e both hurt by each other still awkward near each other but she shows she likes me. Plus insecure and listens to friends who obviously dissaproved.
BTW I'm fucking in Love with her! it hurts so much. To the guy who wrote this:
i can't believe i found someone else sharing the same problem almost. she acts like nothing happened too. back to complimenting me right away too. she complimented me all the time.
BTW I'm fucking in Love with her! it hurts so much. To the guy who wrote this:
i can't believe i found someone else sharing the same problem almost. she acts like nothing happened too. back to complimenting me right away too. she complimented me all the time.
losperros10 Dec 23, 2009
LMAO......i dunno a girl who was my enemy earlier, suddenly became my friend when she came 2 know that i had a crush on her....btw she does the same things as above.....i really dont understand her :(
baluz Feb 02, 2010
but now im being to become sure she loves me too....but wats the reson of this behavior???
baluz Feb 02, 2010
hi you should no that girls are smart they try to take us guys down they wont to be on top and one of the ways are with love daunt let her hurt u like that even if she wont's you to come after her . just move on trust me guy girls will come to you soon
robin95 Jun 30, 2010