Why marriage was not successful?

Three simple reasons- First People marrying cause they are in lust for each other. This is the pheromone thing. It'd genetic. They turn each other on physically. after a 3-7 year span you build up a tolorance to the attraction and all your left with is someone your don't respect, admire, or care about.
second thing- Fear of not being happy 24/7. If you think you are going to be as happy as you were when first dating you are sadly mistaken. Most people walk the first day they have that they aren't glowing with happiness. Happily ever after is a story.
Third thing- Oprah, well the whole feminazi thing in general. Women today take advice from a multi-millaire that has never had a successful family life. It's like taking advice from a bum on how to be a millionaire.

Why did you get married?!

it is because you are not able to, today (actually i mean) couples can't live more few minutes of happyness, the extrem limit : lies and comedy, simulation and self-interest, when it is not true why do you try to believe it ? and the others ?
do you think that they are so blind and so stupid to do not understand at the beginning that it cannot be successfull ?

I, i do not understand why you dare spoiling a part of the life of a boy or a girl who will never be yours, even eating a piece...all that is a strange game...
or only a point of view of course.

i think b coz of understanding is good between u

today, marriage is not necesary for survival. don't know about developing nationns.

Marriage is what you make it. Life is always greener on the other side. No ones relationship is perfect you have to work for it. There has to be respect for one another. You can't let petty stuff become between the both of you.
Always keep in mind why you got married in the first place. Life is not always easy, it doesn't matter if your single or if your married. Being alone sucks.