How to break up and still stay friends

After a very bouncy relationship where we broke up a lot and got back together, I cried a lot, he ignored me a lot, where he cheated on me, I tried to work it out.. I can see he is really trying and I love him to bits but it feels that I am too tired of being in that pattern.
How do I break up with him and still be close friends?!
I am not even sure if we are actually together anyways....

I don't believe you could be close friend with him after breaking up, if you really love him deeply.

Sarakitty,
why would you think so?!

a close friend and a fight ?
to not be together and still friend ?
women questions , very fun...
why not this one as absurd as anonymous : i have children, i do not know if my husband is the father....

(problem : where is the question ! )

say maybe this won't work out and give them a gift or card

Firstly, your a clown for going in and out of a relationship with such a looser! Why would you humiliate and disrespect yourself? are you a robot? Do you know when things are just plain stupid and wrong? Anyway in answer to your ultimate question:

Yes you can be friends... and there is still hope.

The best way to do this is alot of space and time. Hope to god you were not mean in any way, if he was, its only because he thinks you will be so just dont be mean, keep being nice! when i say time and space ... i mean years not day, weeks or months ... years!

But after you breaking up and getting back together again oover and over only proves one thing, that you wasted all that time finding mr right. move on, let go and find a bloke who will treat your like a princess queen, not a tramp! whos last on the list.

Sometime you girls really fall for the dumbest tricks.

Tell him tht u just want ti be friends and smile at him and talk ti him alot thts ht I did when I had tht problem

You can not be friends with an Ex why do peoples think that? He has cheated on you girl move on and get a life. That is other reason why he treat you like BS because you allow him to do so. If he cheated on you before rest of sure he will do it again and you will be crying again.
Baby move on and find someone who care about you becasue if he cheats on you he will do a lot worst things to you.

Hi, my name is Sam, I found this site called www.saveabreakup.com and after I followed the instructions on it, it helped me get my ex back, and we love each other now and forever :)